Salam Dunia, Salam Akhirat
Tiada masalah tanpa dugaan dan tiada dugaan tanpa cabaran.
Hidup tidak mencabar kalau tiada masalah ataupun dugaan yang menimpa, belajar lah sesuatu daripada masalah yang dihadapi daripada lari terus daripada masalah. Makin laju lari meninggalkan masalah makin dihimpit dengan pelbagai masalah. Berani menerima apa jua keputusan daripada tindakan yang dibuat, tebalkan muka kuat kan hati menerima hasil daripada tindakan itu. Kadangkala tindakan yang diambil difikirkan paling terbaik tetapi at the end ia adalah paling terburuk menurut pandangan orang lain, lalu lapangkan la hati akal fikiran untuk menerima kritikan bukannnya keraskan hati untuk tidak menerima ataupun mendengar kritikan. Manusia mempunyai pelbagai pemikiran yang berbeza dan ia melambangkan tahap seseorang dalam menghadapi kehidupannya.
MARI LA KITA SAMA UBAH CARA BERFIKIR KEPADA YANG LEBIH DAPAT MENCERIAKAN DIRI INI.
1. Accept Your Mistakes
You’re human. We, humans, are making mistakes. Accept what you did
wrong and try to do better next time. No need to punish yourself
forever. In fact, accepting your mistakes is the only way to make them
disappear.
2. Accept Your Friends Mistakes
Maybe you got hurt by somebody. Happens. Just accept it and deal with
it. People are making mistakes and if you can accept that for yourself,
accept it for your friends too. In the end, all you need from them is
their love.
3. Create A New Habit
We’re doing a lot of stuff on autopilot. Try to integrate in this
category new things you want to attract into your life. Habits are
powerful. Harness their energy for your own good. Start by creating a habit in 15 days.
4. Build Self Discipline
Don’t wait for other people to impose discipline on you. Start early.
Create your own discipline. Although it sounds a little bit harsh, self discipline is a facilitator for many things in your life. It’s hard to get but great to have.
5. Make New Friends
Reach out. Don’t be afraid. Establish new contacts. The worst thing
that may happen to you is to be rejected. Well, if that’s the case, move
on. The reward of having true, long-lasting friendship is worth all the
potential rejection.
6. Get A New Job
Shaking your comfort zone will often create a lot of value in your
life. If you’re not satisfied with your job, just get a new one. The
pitfall of not having money for a limited period of time is temporary, get over it.
7. Start A New Diet
You are, in a vast proportion, what you eat. Trying a new diet would
often be the only needed change for a dramatic boost of your health and
energy. Don’t necessarily have to be raw food, or even vegetarian, whatever works for you.
8. Keep A Journal
Write down you feelings, your ideas, your goals, your activity. Journaling
is by far one of the most useful things I’ve done to change my life for
the best. It works in such a silent, yet effective way. All you need is
pen and paper.
9. Create And Keep A Morning Phrase
Whatever you say to yourself in the morning, it will most likely come
true during the day. Why not taking advantage of it? Create a simple morning phrase and say it to yourself first thing in the morning. Is that simple.
10. Travel Far Away From Your Home
Traveling long distance
is incredibly rewarding. It’s so exciting and full with unknown events.
I only recently started to travel really far away from my home, but I
do wonder how could I ever made it until now without this.
11. Learn To Take Risks
Your life may be so boring and fade because… err, you made it like this? When was the last time your tried something really difficult? When was the last time you challenged the odds doing something risky? Do it now.
12. Start Your Own Business
Be your own boss. Work your own hours. I know, it sounds so shallow,
for you, who hate your job but still have to stay there because of that
mortgage. Well, unless you make the first step, nothing is going to change. That’s for sure.
13. Change Your Work Space
Clean up your desk. Re-arrange furniture. Add some color to that
space. Make the place where you work really enjoyable. So enjoyable that
work there won’t be perceived as work anymore. It will be something you
love to do.